Frequently asked questions
Memorial jewelry carry a tangible piece of a loved one, something that represents their physical presence. Through my inlay techniques, I can subtly incorporate cremated ashes, hair, even fur or breast milk into the piece.
Although rings are often chosen for memorial jewelry, I can also design pendants/necklaces, bracelets, earrings, and memorial coins.
I work in solid 14K and 18K gold in your choice of color: yellow, white, or rose gold. I do not offer gold-plated or vermeil jewelry, as the plating wears off over time. That’s why I exclusively use solid 14K and 18K gold.
I can incorporate both cremated and water-cremated ashes into a design. Additionally, I work with hair, fur, and even breast milk.
The entire production process takes place in my atelier. Please allow a minimum of 4 to 8 weeks for a personalized piece.
On average, only a small pinch of ash or a few strands of hair are used in a piece. If you bring or send the ashes to the atelier, three teaspoons will be more than enough. Any remaining ashes or other keepsakes that are not used in the piece will, of course, be returned to you along with your jewelry.
There are two ways to provide ashes.
You can bring the ashes during a visit to the atelier. I will then fill the jewelry during your visit. Once the piece is finished, you can collect both the jewelry and the remaining ashes from the atelier.
Alternatively, I can send you and return the completed jewelry and ashes by post. If you’ve ordered online, you can request a free shipping kit during checkout. I will send it to you at no cost. Simply follow the step-by-step instructions included and return the kit for free. I’ll notify you as soon as I receive the material.
The filling process is carried out with great care in the atelier, in a calm and focused environment. Currently, you cannot be present during this process.
When you place an order, the piece is made especially for you. I don’t keep any jewelry in stock. However, I do have photos in the shop of existing designs as well as pieces created in collaboration with clients.
I only need about one teaspoon of ashes for the piece, and often some ashes remain. I return the leftover ashes to you in a secure, labeled package along with your jewelry. You’re also welcome to pick up the remaining ashes at the atelier if you prefer.
Crafting memorial jewelry is a meticulous and labor-intensive process. Therefore, it is unfortunately not possible for you to be present while I create a memorial piece for you. However, you are most welcome to visit my atelier to drop off the cremation ashes, breast milk, or other materials, and together we can select a design and discuss your preferences. Please contact me in advance via email at info@luyendykjewelry.nl to schedule a visit.
Jewelry containing ashes, breast milk, or other memorial materials embedded in resin is water-resistant. However, it is strongly advised not to wear these pieces while swimming, showering, bathing, or washing dishes. Water can contain chemicals—such as soap, chlorine, or salt—that may affect the resin and cause discoloration. Additionally, exposure to chlorinated water and seawater can be harmful to all types of jewelry .
Damage to jewelry caused by contact with water is not covered under warranty.